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BORED stiff, after i have cried myself out when i got the newsof a childhood friend based in london that we even hung out together during my last trip, a very very very funny guy was shot to death by armed robbers in the east, like 2mins away from his fathers home, he actually came back to finalize burial arrangements for his father that they were to bury in december, now father and son are to be buried...... SERIOUSLY what is happening?  Guess i have INSOMNIA but not crying or thinking anymore i am reminiscing...... as i lay on my bed my thought went far and wide from childhood to growing up and now and when i came back i felt like writing some truths about me strait from the heart.

1. I WAS BORN WITH THE MOLE AROUND MY NOSE
my mum said it was like a tiny pimple, the stuff grew as i grew and stop growing as i reached my physical growth height. people used to tease me about it that i had complex while growing up that i wanted it cut off, but now i see it as my BEAUTY SPOT.

2. I LOVE MUSIC
seriously this in no joke, music especially good music inspires and motivates me. i rather listen to music than watch a movie, i cook with music, i sleep with music, i gym with music, i drive with music, i analyze music,for every mood i want to set my self into i have a tune for that, as u read this m listening to music. I love dancing at age 2 i became so popular in church cuz i wait for offertory time and i jump off the chair get to the miiddle aisle and dance my heart out infact any attempt to get me out i will scream down the church building that the priest will beg them to leave me infact that made my mum very popular in a cathedral like church. If u catch me on the dancing floor i will shock you amidst my size.i can get in and out of any mood with good music sets my soul free. 

3. I LOVE COLLECTING BOOKS BUT I DONT READ.
except that i read every fashion magazine i lay my hands on with outmost concentration like m going to take exams on it the next minute. infact i pick up my friends or anyone magazines without telling, so be weary of fashion magazines when am around you

4. I DONT SLEEP ALONE
hmmmmm....... i caught you there!!!! my sleeping partners are my laptop, phones, i-pod,magazines, handbag and sometimes shoe. Infact dint know i had picked up such habbit that i do that even at a friend's house when i sleep out that she had to scream one day ''Ada which one be all this things on top bed, u no fit sleep if u never scatter your things for bed''.... funningly she has come to accept that.

ZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzz OK GUYZ M SLEEPY AT THIS POINT.... watchout for part 2 isnt it how its done in home videos ds my script get pt 4 oooo so stay tuned. Guess my laptop is coming to bed with me....lol.

Adaora Ukoh makes no qualms about her size; ‘I’m deliciously big,’ she says with a cheerful grin.   Adaora hit the big screen with a movie titled Black Bra some years ago. She was making a comeback to the industry she had left behind to pursue a degree in law. The movie enjoyed rave reviews and the actress was happy to be back on the scene.

But then, there came grave silence, and Adaora was certain it had to do with her size. ‘Not too many producers are keen on working with plus-size actresses,’ she complains, ‘we are generally neglected because they aren’t creative enough to find suitable roles for people like me.’

There’s still the worry of being stereotyped, as a plus-size, in the industry. ‘I get only certain kinds of roles that are hardly challenging; but you play along because of the love you have for the job.’ But Adaora comes with impressive talent; her roles of an angry sister, a crazy girlfriend, and mother or an aunt truly limit her flair and versatility.

‘I’m looking for something new, something fresh off the baker’s oven!’ She’s looking no further than being a part of Next Nollywood. ‘I watch movies like 30 Days, Figurine, and there’s a need to want to join the train.’  Her trite years in the industry might be coming to an end soon as she is keen on re-branding her worth. ‘It’s not just about being a good actress; it’s taking it a step higher and building on the brand that you have become. I am interested in that.’ 

We remember Adaora, in her first Nollywood appearance many years ago. She was only a teenager but she managed to carry a wifely role in the movie Karashika well enough. At just 17 she was a remarkable talent, and a plus size beauty. Another prominent character followed afterwards in Cursed from Beyond where she starred alongside Regina Askia. 

Interestingly, Adaora represents a large number of Nigerian women. ‘Everywhere you look we have confident plus-size women excelling in different industries.’ And the question remains; why should Nollywood be any different?  As she sips a glass of mango juice at a bar, she meditates on the success of Hollywood stars like Queen Latifah who’s gone ahead to conquer the industry over there regardless of her size. ‘She probably would have been looked over if she were here in Nollywood,’ Adaora states.

Adaora is hopeful as she looks forward to playing versatile roles, just so it can be known that a big girl can interpret whatever role she’s given. ‘It’s been a slow year for me; maybe it has to do with recession,’ she adds, shrugs and sips from her glass. 

As she looks forward to a new year; Adaora has her fingers dipped in many pies. ‘As we speak, I’ve recorded over 12 episodes of my talk show – Diva Dynasty.’ Diva Dynasty is a TV concept focusing on women. Ms. Ukoh is going all the way to empower women and youths; and giving them a platform to share, inspire and grow. 

If it sounds cliché, it probably is, but Adaora quickly defends her concept; ‘It’s different because we make it a show that gives all access to the icon under study. It’s not shot in a studio; what we do is pay a visit, lean on the couch, look through family pictures, and get the guest talking.’ 

The show takes one busy day out of an iconic woman’s schedule and asks all there is to know. She is looking at February for kick-off of the first season on DSTV and terrestrial TV. ‘I’ve interviewed inspiring women like Joke Silva and Tara Fela-Durotoye…’

You might wonder why she is dabbling into TV as a Talk-show host; ‘someone believed in me,’ she says. ‘They had a concept, had the funds and sponsors; they wanted a host, so they approached me. I thought it would be a good way to leverage on my brand.’ She is keeping her fingers crossed on the acceptability of the show and praying she becomes just as good as Oprah. 

There’s just another part of Adaora that might put a smile on the faces of her fans; most of whom are just as big as her, or are inspired by her size. ‘I’m floating a fashion label soon,’ she enthuses. Her cheeks blossom in delight as she shares her thoughts on what she plans to call – Adaora Couture. 

‘The plus size women are holding the short end of a stick in a society fraught with super-slim models on the runway and in boardrooms. With my fashion line I just want to make one thing clear – big can be sexy, cool, and hot!’  We have no doubt she’d pull that one remarkably well. ‘Adaora Couture deals with fabrics that are flattering on plus-size women. We lean towards comfort with a touch of class.’

She vows with a happy grin that the clothes from her line will be reasonably priced without compromising on quality.

‘We’ll have a one-on-one relationship with clients,’ she says as she chips in the bit of the couture line being in collaboration with a friend.  She seems quite ready for the challenges ahead. ‘I love to multi task,’ she beams proudly. So next year is definitely an Adaora year! She’s determined to make it so as she battles to fight back a bit of her reputation from the hands of inept journalists.

‘I haven’t had a good year with the press,’ she confesses. From blatant lies to calculating propaganda Adaora has been accused many times of being a sex-craved actress, something she has had to defend over and again. ‘I get interviewed only for me to pick the paper up the following week and realise my utterances have been twisted to suit the mind of a disturbed writer. It’s sickening!’ 

One that urgently comes to mind is a headline screaming at the top of it lungs:  ‘I want people to see me and get turned on.’ 

‘I never said that,’ Adaora states, ‘the writer’s warped mind came up with that, not me. They just want to sell by all cost, so we are only preys in the hands of some of these journalists.’ This, however, is sadly true. 

The interview gradually winds to an end as Adaora is ready to hit the gym; her black-striped sneakers bounce stylishly on her feet and her black combo looks just as sporty as her craving.

‘I want to lose some weight. I will never be a size 8; but I need to lose some for health reasons.’ I quickly ask the familiar question; ‘any man in the picture?’ She laughs shyly and shakes her head. ‘No man. It’s by choice really. I’m trying to focus on my career…’ We’ve heard that too many times, haven’t we? But she adds, as if reading my thoughts; ‘I have no problem with falling in love; but you have to wait for the right one. He doesn’t have to be perfect; just right for me.’ 

- Joy Isi Bewaji

Joy Isi Bewaji interviewed Nollywood Actress Adaora Ukoh on October 21, 2009 at the popular swanky spot Swe Bar in Lagos, Nigeria. Adaora has starred in such Nollywood hits as Black Bra, Supremacy, Only Love and Total Control

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