When all is said and done.........
By Lady Eno
In regards to dating rules and regulation i am very
modern. I am part of the new generation and
i believe it is ok for a woman to ask a man out
however, a woman has to proceed with caution always.
Dropping a few pointers will not hurt, but were can a sister draw
the line?
These days some women just take this rule to the very extreme and
it is sad because while doing so, humilate themselves and
further encourage anti-socialite men thinking any woman who
is being friendly is out to chase them. As if, if a smart woman
wanted a man she couldn't get him before he said Jack
Robinson..................... and all the sisters say amen.
Before writing any further i must stress here, i am no feminist
activist or woman's right whatever, i just think some of our
actions as women permit men to treat us with such disrespect and
then we wonder why....... ladies, Girls.......... if you see a
man you like, walk up and say hi, if he response good for you,
keep the conversation flowing, kind of be in control and
remember you are the one who wants his number without asking. At
this point all roads leads to how to get him to ask for a date or
something without seeming desperate.
If he calls luck you, if he doesnt stop making excuses for him,
assuming he is busy with work, if a man wants you he will make
time. so when all is said and done take your cues and never
disturb a man or try to convince him why he should date you just
have Fun.
Irrespective of what the popular saying is, there are more than
enough men for all of us. You just have to know how to swim in
the dating pool.....
Rebecca
